Was having a discussion with a friend, and she said.. there is a time to everything Ankur... i said yes.. it hasn't come!!! :P
and just now one friend was sayin.. u bet!!! :P
Well, dont know... have read it a lot of places, commented on it.. but u do tell me... how does it feels to be single at 30?
Is it good, bad or kinda mix???
Implications u think???
Really dont have anything great to write so discussing my personal stuff here!!!
but really need u all, for me to look into my decision!!! :)
Cheers!!!
110 comments:
It will feel the same as it does at 28. Koi fark nahi padega, aur padna bhi nahi chahiye.
The "time" for getting into anything is when you "feel" like it. There is nothing too soon or too late.
I second Aneri_masi.
Don't make your life a time-table. My philosophy is take things as they come, whenever they come. Don't push away love if it comes to you next year. Don't sweat it if you don't find it in more than 2 years.
Btw, I love this song!
Make that two people on bet!
:)
Btw..what's this 30 ka funda goin' on? I think you should marry someone before that. Jaldi dhoondo!
:)
oye age mein kya hai...they r just numbers mate....if yur young at heart doesnt matter if yur 30 or 40...
enjoy yur singleton right now....
Single at 30?
Is there a rule that people should not be single at 30?
What's there to discuss about it?
When you step away from love, relationships, dating and all that.. it seems like you begin to let your guard down.
Love seems to find you! When you give up on it or just try to put it past you!
Go for it! But I don't see you single long Ankur you are a great catch!!!
Shalom
Ne.
on a lighter note I will sponsor 30+ for you....)
I do beleive everything has its time and it will happen when it has to...love has no qualms entering your life at any age....then why do you?
Seriously what is this
'Is it OK to be single at 30?'
saga going on in Blogville right now?
I dun u'stand it. Does love n marriage go by a certain AGE? Is it Love ur really looking for or SOCIETY's approval on ur life?
Keshi.
you got it out of me dude. 30 and all was my post. i shd hv copyrighted it , phbbbbbbbbt
anyways fun apart, you must have your good reasons to evade a relationship for next 2 yrs, but trust me you cannot resist it.
the day you have to fall for somebody, you would and as kashmira says you would one day and when you would, the time and backdrop, the age wont matter
keshi, in traditional indian society, marriage has to happen by an age, but then who gives ears to that....
Do whatever your instinct tells you Rockstar ;-)
You're eitherways only as old as you think you are :D
**in traditional indian society
Ashu u mentioned 2 words that explains this dilemma. And they r:
TRADITIONAL
and
SOCIETY
Who gives a damn abt em! Love isnt abt AGE after all.
Keshi.
You shouldn't put a time-stamp on it Ankur. What if you find someone next year and fall in love with her? So just take it as it comes.
And who said being 30 and single is bad? I am 30 and I am still not married...but I am very happy with my life. Thats all that matters in the end doesn't it?
btw Ankur, Stygian has replied to ya in my blog. :) Come check it out!
Keshi.
you don't plan love or marraige...they just happen :)
I say feelings have no age to come, and you neednt rush it you still arent upto it, 30 or no 30.
And like Mia said age is just a no....that shouldnt be a barrier or a influence for anything !
Enjoy life buddy.
people can be single whenever they want.. just that they should "feel" single.that's it!
Sir, I am a fan of yours.Dropped in here through Cinderella's space.Will blogroll you,if you do not mind.
Cheers,
Mishra
btw Ankur I hv a msg for u in Anjuli's blog. Hv a read when u hv time.
Keshi.
Staying single is amazing.I believe that applies to all age groups.I mean look at some of the greats that India has ever produced.Bajpayee Ji is a fine example.One can devote all his time for something that he loves to do ( now that love is not what we see in those stupid bolly flicks ).Still, having relationships is being human and 'just working' is being a machine.We actually can not say if its good/bad on an absolute basis.Baaki sab prabhu ki ichcha...
Bhai I am an admirer of your reviews that I read on various blog-spaces.Hope to learn a lot from you Sir.
LOL...
Ur choice....afterall its ur life;-)))
Bahut saari ladkiyon ke dil tod diye par aapne;0))))
but I suppose... 2 is better then 1:PPP
Dont put a leash on urself. At 28, you are at the right age to be open about love and marriage. I would surely say, keep ur eyes n ears and ur heart open to others. Dont try too hard, but dont miss on clear opportunities. Saying I will not fall in love for the next 2 years is like asking ur heart to go on a dharna. Love will surely knock on ur doors.. today or tomm.. dont overlook it.
no idea.. still waiting for 30 n marriage both!
heheh tats cool bro...
so u not invested in diamonds yet i guess...lol...
dude dont decide to remin single.. did you decided tht you wud now get into relationship..it just happens yaar come onn..
on second thoughts...
you should get married by the time you are 30. Otherwise you will break out into hives, your left leg will shorten by half a millimeter every year until you get hooked up, your speech will start to slur. you will start dreaming about toads every day, and the toads will get new skills in every dream.
when you do get married, the symptoms will slowly go away.
now you tell me why you even had such a question in the first place?
and oh, you should have kids by the time you are 30 and half.
hahaha Aneri good one!
And Ankur, why do u put bars on ur emotions? Such as 'I'll remain single til Im 30' etc etc. U cant really put barricades across what u might feel tomorrow.
U may not be in love today...but who knows who u'd meet tomorrow? Just keep ur heart n soul open to just abt anything. Experiences r waiting to happen and no one knows WHEN.
Keshi.
agree with kesji girl!!!
Ohkay so this is the post that triggered another post. Hmmm.
Staying single at 30, no harm in that as long as you don't have any issues with it.
I guess it's the mindset and the society that sort of puts a lil bug in the head.
hey Ankur, i can co-relate to your blog many times. I would love if you could visit mine blog too.
As of it, the 30 is something that i m hitting in 2 weeks time and i m single ;). so if you want to know and feel at 30, i can share it..
nice blog this
Does age make a difference? To society yes it does.."Oh mg God he/she is 30 and single..something must be wrong". But why care 2 hoots for losers like them eh?
hmm i wud agree with wht ur friend said!i believe everything happens for a reason and tht everything has its time. I never knew tht i wud fall in love so early in life.....considering the fact tht i was jus 18 then!so chill maar yaar!Har phase main ek apna hi maaza hota hai. :)
Again inexperienced to comment:PP
All i can say is....being single at 30....no biggie these days....its about how you live your life at 30...not what age 30 does to you!!!
@Aneri_Masi
**The "time" for getting into anything is when you "feel" like it. There is nothing too soon or too late.
True... :)
I have realised this!! :D
Cheers!!!
@P
Thanks...
I am not gonna push anything away!!! :)
i m open to signals now!! !:D
Cheers!!!
@P
hai na.. this song is amazing!! :D
@Sach
hehe... okie u too wanna bet!! ;)
haha... I am not looking, but also not stopping myself now!! :D
Cheers!!!
@Sneha
haha... there is no rule yaar, but u gave a typical answer which i was looking for!! :D
I wont disccus it, I will fall if it comes, otherwise i m happy d way i m !! ;)
:D
and i m looking for signals now, as Vrij said!! ;)
lolzzz
Cheers!!!
@Ne
**Love seems to find you! When you give up on it or just try to put it past you!
how true!!! :)
**But I don't see you single long Ankur you are a great catch!!!
Now thats a great thing... thnxx :)
Cheers!!!
@Ceedy
oh great... m coming there then!! ;)
sometimes i have to question myself yaar.. keeping in mind all the pressure coming from the family!! :(
@Keshi
hehe... no my saga is different!!! lol
No... rightly said, love doesnt go by age!! :)
Cheers!!!
@Ashu
:P
ya.. u made me think babeh... :P
no, i dont want to evade it... not at all!!!
but sometimes i think of it... and then!!!
and yes... age wont matter!!!
thnx :)
@Macadamia the Nut
hehe... i think i m just 18!!! :P
;)
Cheers!!
@Carolinagal
yes... actually while writing this post, the first post which came to my mind was urs only which u put up when u turned 30!!! :)
I am happily single!! :D
hehe
Cheers!!!
@Keshi
I hv replied to Stygian, keshigirl!! :D
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@Anjuli
yes... true!! :)
Cheers!!
@Ella
I wont rush it seriously, but i have also realized reading all the comments here that is shldnt stop myself too.. if it comes, it will.. .otherwise i dont have any Qualms!!!
Thnxxx...
and btw.. this chasma pic makes u look super cute and kid!! :D
Cheers!!!
@Radhika
now this feeling single becomes a problem sometimes!! :P
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@Mishra
Thanks a lot Sir... really dont make urself a fan of mine... i m very impulsive!!! lolzzz
will blogroll u soon!!! :)
CheerS!!!
@Keshi
Thnxxx a ton Keshi for writing there in Anjuli's blog!!! :)
U rock Buddy!!! :)
Cheers!!!!
@Mishra
I thought u will ask me to take a Cue from Rahul Gandhi... one of the most eligible bachelors arnd!! ;) :D
hehe... just kidding!!!
**We actually can not say if its good/bad on an absolute basis.Baaki sab prabhu ki ichcha...
So true!!! :)
sir... u r making me a fan of urs with ur comment here!!! :)
Cheers!!
@Chakoli
:P
i know its my life!!! lolzzz
kiska dil toda yeh bhi toh pata chale!!! :O :O
hehe...
2 is better than 1??? :O :O
Cheers!!!
@Chakoli
:P
i know its my life!!! lolzzz
kiska dil toda yeh bhi toh pata chale!!! :O :O
hehe...
2 is better than 1??? :O :O
Cheers!!!
@Abhishek khanna
me too waiting!!! lolz
thnxx for dropping by!! :)
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@Nirmal
I think i like a diamond!! ;)
Cheers!!
@Prashant
i dont know if it will happen or not.. so now i have left it on fate more than anything!! :P
Cheers!!!
@Aneri
**you should get married by the time you are 30. Otherwise you will break out into hives, your left leg will shorten by half a millimeter every year until you get hooked up, your speech will start to slur. you will start dreaming about toads every day, and the toads will get new skills in every dream.
lolzzz... thanks a lot!! :P
Yaar, coz family wants me to marry anyhow this year, but i am not in any hurry to find the girl i want to live my whole life with!!!
So i dont know what to do... :(
@ANeri
:P
30 mai shaadi toh 30.5 mai kids kaise!!!
meri biwi aapko marne wali hai!! ;)
:D
hehe
Cheers!!!
@Keshi
**U cant really put barricades across what u might feel tomorrow.
I have accepted this after reading all the comments here!! :)
WHEN... is the whole question it seems!! lolzzz
but now i m not here with my heart and eyes closed!! :)
Cheers!!!
@Ashu
ok Ashu ji... read my reply to keshi then!! ;)
:D
Cheers!!!
@J
**so this is the post that triggered another post. Hmmm
which post r we talkin abt here???
Exactly, u got it right dude, its society which wont let us livEE!! :P
hehe
Thnxx for dropping by!!
Cheers!!
@Buzzz
buddy, will blogroll u!!! :)
kewl.. u r hitting 30.. than u r d 1 to listen to!! :D
Now dont blame me for me buggin u!! :P
Cheers!!!
@Crasiezt
yes.. just to the society!! :D
**But why care 2 hoots for losers like them eh?
yaar... sometimes!! :D
btw.. thnxx for takin some time out of ur busy schedule mam!! lolzzz
Cheers!!!
@Ria
even i fell in love when i was 20!!! :D
hehe...
par sahi kaha... har phase ka apna ek maza hota hai and i m enjoyin this one now!! :D
Cheers!!!
@Aqua Girl
no experience... just think and answer!! ;)
yes... i am gonna live my life at 30.. KINGSIZE!!! :D
hehe
CheerS!!!
@Vrij
**keep ur eyes n ears and ur heart open to others. Dont try too hard, but dont miss on clear opportunities.
bhai, this sounds like.. "Look for the singals"!! !:D
hehe
aur mujhe kisi movie ki yaad aa gayi!! ;)
:D
I am not gonna overlook at it now!!
m open!! :D
CheerS!!!
Yeah, dont rush, but aa raha hai toh khule baaho se welcome karo (sorry I coudnt find a hindi word for that)...
Btw, if you're gonna keep this pic on your profile or any goddamn where eyes can see it, tab toh bhul jao kuch hone ka ya kisike aane ka....
Abhi tak dadhi hai ya gaya ?
Haan yaad aya, swagat karo....yesssss........aur dadhi hatao...
ok so if love doesnt go by age as u and I believe, wud u marry a woman who's 100yrs old? LOL!
Keshi.
@Ella
**but aa raha hai toh khule baaho se welcome karo (sorry I coudnt find a hindi word for that)...
Bhelcome... heheh ;)
haan re.. ab wahi soch raha hoon!! :D
mana karne ya rush karne se acha hai ki if it comes, then see!! :)
**Btw, if you're gonna keep this pic on your profile or any goddamn where eyes can see it, tab toh bhul jao kuch hone ka ya kisike aane ka....
all my gud frnds say that!! :P
**Abhi tak dadhi hai ya gaya ?
Pura chikna ekdum ab toh bhidu!! :D
Cheers~!!!
@Ella
**Haan yaad aya, swagat karo....yesssss........aur dadhi hatao...
wah wah.. Nara ho gaya...
Swagat karo.. dhadhi hatao!! :D
:D
dadhi hat gayi, and swagat ho jayega!! :D
@Keshi
**wud u marry a woman who's 100yrs old? LOL!
If i so fall in love, then i would!!! :)
I have experience... love doesnt last forever anyways!! :)
Cheers!!!
Ankur plz dun lie. LOL!
Keshi.
@Keshi
not kidding at all!!!
i m serious!!
If i will fall in love with her, and if i think of marryin.. i will certainly!!
koi farak nahin padega
@Veensie
pehle toh... "Dhanya bhag humare jo aap humare blog par padhare"!! !:P
ab tu toh shaadi kar rahi hai, mai reh gaya akela!!! :(
farq toh pda gaya na!!! :D
I watched Jaane tu last tuesay....lalalalala.....you're late !!!!
Badhiya movie thi. Dekhna zarur !
I so wanna watch Hancock ! Batana kaisa tha....
Hahahahha...ab chikne Ankur ki photu toh daal bhidu !!
Nayi photu lagao - ladki patao...
LOl...! Whata sorry ass nara is that...bahahaha !!!!!!
@Ella
Chidha le... par mai bhi dekh loonga is week for sure!! :D
:D
haan mai tujhse pehle dekhoonga Hancock!! :D
yeppie!! :D
hurray!! !:D
@Ella
no ladki patao contest here!! :P
fotu hategi aaj ratri mai, ghar jakar upload karni padegi.. cable nahi hai abhi phone ki!!! :D
waise u look so different in this fotu of urs!!
Cheers!!!
Ankur,
You asked me on Psychobabble if you could blogroll it.
You sure can now that its up and running again!
http://gujjuben.blogspot.com
@Sneha
Thanks! !:)
Cheers!!!
Sarcasm kahe ke liye babua? Apun sahi mein busy rehta hai...
@Crasiezt
arre sarcasm nahi re... total majak re...
miss ur comments... isliye!! :D
Ashu's post.
@J
u can say this... :D
it really triggered this as i was thinking over this for long!!!
Abhi tak badla nahi photu tumne ?!!
Aur kya different ?!
Hi Ankur,
Don;t you reply to comments on ur oter blog...mst be busy na...LOL!
Anyways, nothng to say abt this...ur decision...but I wld contradict...bttr fnd a girl and settle down...only if u can LOL!
Loved ur poems and blog...will visit often :)
*oh great... m coming there then!! ;)*
aaa jao maine kab mana kiya ;)
*sometimes i have to question myself yaar.. keeping in mind all the pressure coming from the family!! :(*
dude YOU have to know what you really WANT....there will be pressures from all facets of life...what makes you think that post marraige/relationship there will be no pressures.....you cannot buckle at them and set unnecessary boundaries...
instead of seeking answers from everyone and obliging to everything - you need to take some time off for YOURSELF sit and really find out what will make you comfortable - mind you what you think will make you comfortable might not be the right answer - but atleast you tried and took a stance - and then instead of blaming parental/peer pressures for everything in your life - you will be the one to blame and sort it...
***Yaar, coz family wants me to marry anyhow this year, but i am not in any hurry to find the girl i want to live my whole life with!!!
So i dont know what to do... :(***
You DO know what you want. Which is you are not in a hurry. Marrying because someone else wants you to is the worst mistake you can ever make.
30.5 mein kids hone maangte, nahi to toads aayenge dreams mein. How you manage that is up to you :)
@Ella
nahi badla yaar...
n abt diff... chasme se u looking some other being!! :D
hehe...
Cheers!!!
@Meghna
how r u there?
:)
hehe.. seriously, the other blog is mine is treated by me like an unwanted child!!
but really busy with work these days!!! :)
hehe... now this was cute... **bttr fnd a girl and settle down...only if u can LOL!
hehe.. u know wat, u said it right from the heart without any prejudice!!!
thanku... :)
thanku... and will blogroll u !! :)
Cheers!!!
@Ceedy
aap mana hi nahi kar sakte ho.. kar bhi doge toh mai nahi manoonga!!! :D
**you cannot buckle at them and set unnecessary boundaries...
sahi kaha... i have realised this!! but u dont know me, at my home they think i m the best guy, who listens to everyone and do as everyone says.. its difficult to break it now!! :P
i tried seeking an opinion, coz this is me... u all r my frnds!! if its reality then face off... but atleast i know how ppl think, learning is good na bhai... so i did... learnt from ppl, decision is eventually gonna me mine!! :)
and yes.. i m not gonna blame anyone, coz i take my decisions, ppl can help me so i will say thanks to them if i succedd, but if i fail, then my fault, coz i choose it!!! :)
:D
Cheers!!!
@Aneri
**Marrying because someone else wants you to is the worst mistake you can ever make.
yes.. i dont want to make that mistake.. just coz ppl think i m too old wont make me too old!!! :)
thanks...
**30.5 mein kids hone maangte, nahi to toads aayenge dreams mein. How you manage that is up to you
hehehe... :P :P
waise bhi i m plannin to adopt a girl... so i think its possible!! :D
i will be PAPA.. wow!! :D
u know.. the thoughts even make me shiver!! :D
hehe
Cheers!!
@ankur
oye young at heart is more like.....u can be at amtured up in yur head but dil mein yur still a baccha or a younger n dont consider yurself to be the age u r actually....
trust me i feel act n behave younger to my age ;)
BTW hey pls stick to the name mia....pls pls pls...on yurs as well as my blog can u pls edit / del tat comment ....u know what am refering to
@Princess
**trust me i feel act n behave younger to my age ;)
hehe.. than i do this all the time too.. i can never grow up at heart, coz i love to be a kid!!!
:D
once ppl meet me, they come to know tat... all my friends love/hate me for that only!!! :P
they have to be a part of my pranks too at times!!!! :P
heehe
CheerS!!!
@Princess
do u have any other name than Princess??? :O :O
oyee.. how come i dont know!!! :P :P
hehe
kiddin re... dont ya worry!!! :)
we will stick to princess!! ;) ;)
enjoy...
CheerS!!
I guess being single at 30 could be good and bad based on individuals's preference.
But it can also get stressful when everyone else have someone and you are still hanging.
I say...take one step at a time but yet do not miss out on opportunities that say hi.;)
Sometimes its the little things that lead to the big things that are worth far better than our demanded time.;)
cheers!:D
got here a tad late... hence, the tardy comment.
honestly... there's nothing like "time" or "age". it's about finding the right person. right for u, not perfect or anything. and once u find the person, u'll know. :)
enjoy being single till u meet the one for u, ankur! all the best! :)
@Sweetstickychewy
**I guess being single at 30 could be good and bad based on individuals's preference.
true :)
**I say...take one step at a time but yet do not miss out on opportunities that say hi.;)
hehe... ya, now i m not closing myself for it!! :D
**Sometimes its the little things that lead to the big things that are worth far better than our demanded time.;)
so true!!! :)
liked ur comment very much!! :)
cheers!
@rayshma
hehe.. no problem! :D
**honestly... there's nothing like "time" or "age". it's about finding the right person. right for u, not perfect or anything. and once u find the person, u'll know. :)
yes!! :)
i guess i need the right person!! :)
I am enjoying my Singleton!! :D
hehe
Thnxx
Cheers!!!
@rayshma
hehe.. no problem! :D
**honestly... there's nothing like "time" or "age". it's about finding the right person. right for u, not perfect or anything. and once u find the person, u'll know. :)
yes!! :)
i guess i need the right person!! :)
I am enjoying my Singleton!! :D
hehe
Thnxx
Cheers!!!
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