Sunday, February 3
Love, Breakups and Moving on
Lately, I dont know why I am only soming across such posts??? Is it coincidence??? Life is certainly difficult without the one we love..
Everywhere i see, there are a lot of people who are unhappy with what they did. People are looking for answers!!! Y did we love at the first place? Was it a right decision? Was it a right person? Were we making too many compromises? Why did we break up? What was wrong? Was my decision abt that person wrong??
I ask all of them: If you were so intelligent than y did u fall in love at the first place??? And wat i find interesting here is tat all of them believe in love at first sight... if not all then most.
But y didnt u try and find an answer to this? Y did u fall??? At the hindsight there may be many evidences which suggests tat we took the wrong decision, but did someone force u?? i dont think so!!!!
I hope ppl understand tat by just sayin its divine we wont make it.. but feel it this way... Dont just talk abt the diviness, better believe in it. There was no reason to fall in love but yet u did... now dont be so unhuman to betray urself by thinking that it wasnt right. Not everything happens for right or wrong... so let it be the way it is..
I always loved this quote
Love isn't finding a perfect person. It's seeing an imperfect person perfectly- Sam Keen
Wat we did was right.. we gave it our best shot and beacuse of some unwanted circumstance we did not reach at the end that we wanted. But the journey leading to tat path, one shld try to remember that. Its not always the destination which is most enjoyable coz its just a moment, but its the journey leading us to tat destination which is eternal, makes us feel happy. Love is a journey not a destination.
I think we somehow somewhere took a wrong step and our journey was ended, yet the path is still enjoyable, memorable, nostalgic.
I would have loved my girl anyways even if i would have known she will break my heart.
In the end i would like to end with my own lines:
कमबख्त दिल को समझाए कैसे
टूटे हुए सपने सजाये कैसें
अब जो टूट गए हैं अरमान
फिर से दिल लगाये कैसें