Tuesday, September 8

Is It what we want?

Why does it happens that when we want something badly, and when we have it... We dont like it that much!!

Is this what we want or are we searching for something which doesnt exist???

18 comments:

Mysterious Mia said...

i dunno why.....but yes i can relate to what yur saying

aneri_masi said...

Its all a trick of the mind. When you first begin to want something, it is exactly what it is. But if you spend a lot of effort and time to obtain it, then the thing/person in question becomes something more important than it actually is. And once you get it, you see how ordinary it is, and hence the feeling. Samjha?

Ankur said...

@Mia

but i hope u have ur answers... i havent got any! :(

Ankur said...

@Kash
i agree to u a lot on this... I guess this is what happens with me!!!
All life i ran after things and when i got them, i never understood that if they were really that important!! :)

Lena said...

There are 2 options:

1. You are scared now when you have it because you don't know if you can do your dream justice.

2. That's something you did not need in the first place :)

In the end we search for a lot of things and we have problems to figure out if that's what we actually need.

Ria said...

Yes, it happens every so often....we always run after something that we dont have, coz we dont value what we have!!

Chakoli said...

True true !

ceedy said...

Learn to sit down and listen to yourself within - there are things that you WANT and things simply that you NEED - we are tuned to go after things in life - grow - but sometimes its necessary to shed and see how light you will feel.

Cinderella. said...

I know you're saying this in a complete sombre mood, but this happens to me while shopping. I buy smth then I think its not hat gr8 !

Waise kabhi kuch aisa bada paane ki chaah hi nahi ki shayad, cz I dont ever remember myself feeling this way.

Ekta said...

agree with Aneri...i think for me its the process of getting something thats more imp and exciting than the thing itself!

Ankur said...

@Lena
1) it may be the case, but it isnt! :)
2) may be this is d reason but i couldnt figure it out yet! :)

Ankur said...

@Lena

**In the end we search for a lot of things and we have problems to figure out if that's what we actually need.

how very true! :)

Ankur said...

@Ria
yep... i agree with the "we dont value we have" part completely!! :)

Ankur said...

@Chakoli
yes yes!! :P

Ankur said...

@CD
nice thought... i really have to do it i guess! :)

Ankur said...

@Ella
not exactly in complete sombre mood! :D

and may be u r lucky then if u havent felt this way... god bless u! :)

Ankur said...

@Ekta
yep, i think when i thought more abt it, i agree its the path or journey more exciting than the destination!! :)

workhard said...

Thats human nature.. its never satisfied with what u have....

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