Sex and You and Custody of Kids!!!

I was reading the news few days back in TOI, Britney Spears like threesome and she is a lesbian. It was also mentioned in the news article that her husband wants the custody of their kids on this ground.

Many of you might think that on moral grounds this is right, But I have few questions for you… What you take pleasure in, affects you??? Or may be… Does the fact that you admire many opposite sex people and you want to sleep with then has affected your present relationship??? If yes then how many times???

Well I think that there is no correlation-ship between the fact that you take pleasure in sex and threesome or the fact that you are a lesbian or a gay in relation with the fact how you grow your child or the etiquettes and manners of your child?

Many men party hard… They sleep with many women. But how many of their kids don’t love them? But if a lady is believed to be sleeping with other men then do we think the same? Will the children give her the same respect especially in India?

I was reading a post regarding 'Hymenoplasty' or 'Re-virginization' . I asked myself a question there that whether this will help women. When I look back, many people I know, who still thinks that if the hymen of the woman is broken then she is not virgin. Many women suffer from the trauma of this sheer fact. They are not truly accepted and in many a cases they are forced to leave the husband or for dying…

I just want you to ask yourself a simple question...

Am I out of such beliefs and disbeliefs???
OR
Am I the one who thinks like this???

And the answer i believe lies in retrospection and introspection…


I would like you to think and think and think ... and here I end with a quote...

Change yourself before trying to change the world.

The Irony of studyin MBBS abroad...

Well.. Sounds stunning... face off... who doesn’t wants to go abroad for higher studies... but if you are a doctor then do check the credentials, they are no more valid and authorized in UK...

Off course the first question is that why is this, is the quality of Indian Doctors is so poor...but on the other hand we have examples of Baby Noor... coming all the way from Pakistan to Bangalore for surgery... isn’t it a paradox... then rather questioning and cribbing about the issue I think we should take a look at the current scenario in India.

The All India Institute Of Medical Sciences (AIIMS) is considered one of the best medical colleges in India, but it's a sad fact that 60 per cent of MBBS students here, fly off to the US, UK and Australia for higher studies or jobs.

But perhaps the reason why they leave India is more absurd or sadder...

In countries like US or UK super specialization is available... if we take a look at India, many colleges either don’t provide super specialization or they only have a limited number of seats which I believe can only be bought at a rate which is around or over 50 lakh rupees. I may be incorrect with the exact amount but the sad part is that even those limited seats are sold and only few are offered on merit.

Secondly, there is a problem of specializing and working with a government hospital that they have to work for a fixed period of time with the institution and also the fact that the salary is very low... When there is abundant opportunity why will someone only be interested in the fixed monthly salary...

The paradox is... dearth of opportunities and abundant demand of talent...

And we curse UK... Duh...rather than cursing UK for not recognizing the degree we should ask our government to revisit the existing scenario and upgrade it to the level where these doctors can pursue higher studies in India only...And don’t have to migrate abroad…one simple reason…we need them at home !!