Who Cares~~~ Let'em Fight!!!

Dear Friends, i havent written ever since i have completed my Masters, i think a sheer sign of complacency... who wants to express, huh!!!


but i cant resist now to express myself, belong to this part of the world where all these clashes are takin place...

Jaipur, in the center of all these clashes, is still safe n sound...touchwood i should say, living in a metro and a state capital has certain advantages i must say. But whats goin around is certainly givin me headache... its too bad, from outside its a news, clashes between communities, government not understanding the situation. We dont know how it feels to become a part of it. And many ppl must be sayin, good lord tat we are not a part of it... who wants to but... many dont know wat they r upto... many r thrown into this... and many are motivated with the sheer power of money...

but few r those who r really worried abt the state of their community, but i guess they r not even participatin... they know tat this is not the right way to fight for it... and if this is... then who says Osama is wrong... he has his agenda as these communities...do then we have the right to say whos right and whos wrong...


God, y do i think abt all this so much. Y this gives me so much pain, but when i hear ppl dyin... it really hurts...


Last month it all started with the clashes between 2 other communities in Punjab and later i was stunned to know that few of those leaders are motivated from Pakistan.. they have connections there... just for money we can sell anything... Just anything...


Well... i still remember the biggest riots in the history of modern india... 1992... a muslim had his shop just next to my house... few activists came and they were all very happy demolishing everything there... y so..i certainly dont know... do u???


well... tragedy of life is, we all are motivated with such small issues... we dont look at bigger ones... there is no water to drink not even in many parts of the world but here also... rajasthan is a dry state and now these clashes are makin it more dryer...

God.. help these ppl out... i certainly dont have the courage right now to do anything... i believe in wonders... but r u listenin... Plz come to rescue....Plz...



I hope this will be alright in few days... not many ppl have to give up their lives just for no reason...

Amen!!!

Sex and You and Custody of Kids!!!

I was reading the news few days back in TOI, Britney Spears like threesome and she is a lesbian. It was also mentioned in the news article that her husband wants the custody of their kids on this ground.

Many of you might think that on moral grounds this is right, But I have few questions for you… What you take pleasure in, affects you??? Or may be… Does the fact that you admire many opposite sex people and you want to sleep with then has affected your present relationship??? If yes then how many times???

Well I think that there is no correlation-ship between the fact that you take pleasure in sex and threesome or the fact that you are a lesbian or a gay in relation with the fact how you grow your child or the etiquettes and manners of your child?

Many men party hard… They sleep with many women. But how many of their kids don’t love them? But if a lady is believed to be sleeping with other men then do we think the same? Will the children give her the same respect especially in India?

I was reading a post regarding 'Hymenoplasty' or 'Re-virginization' . I asked myself a question there that whether this will help women. When I look back, many people I know, who still thinks that if the hymen of the woman is broken then she is not virgin. Many women suffer from the trauma of this sheer fact. They are not truly accepted and in many a cases they are forced to leave the husband or for dying…

I just want you to ask yourself a simple question...

Am I out of such beliefs and disbeliefs???
OR
Am I the one who thinks like this???

And the answer i believe lies in retrospection and introspection…


I would like you to think and think and think ... and here I end with a quote...

Change yourself before trying to change the world.

The Irony of studyin MBBS abroad...

Well.. Sounds stunning... face off... who doesn’t wants to go abroad for higher studies... but if you are a doctor then do check the credentials, they are no more valid and authorized in UK...

Off course the first question is that why is this, is the quality of Indian Doctors is so poor...but on the other hand we have examples of Baby Noor... coming all the way from Pakistan to Bangalore for surgery... isn’t it a paradox... then rather questioning and cribbing about the issue I think we should take a look at the current scenario in India.

The All India Institute Of Medical Sciences (AIIMS) is considered one of the best medical colleges in India, but it's a sad fact that 60 per cent of MBBS students here, fly off to the US, UK and Australia for higher studies or jobs.

But perhaps the reason why they leave India is more absurd or sadder...

In countries like US or UK super specialization is available... if we take a look at India, many colleges either don’t provide super specialization or they only have a limited number of seats which I believe can only be bought at a rate which is around or over 50 lakh rupees. I may be incorrect with the exact amount but the sad part is that even those limited seats are sold and only few are offered on merit.

Secondly, there is a problem of specializing and working with a government hospital that they have to work for a fixed period of time with the institution and also the fact that the salary is very low... When there is abundant opportunity why will someone only be interested in the fixed monthly salary...

The paradox is... dearth of opportunities and abundant demand of talent...

And we curse UK... Duh...rather than cursing UK for not recognizing the degree we should ask our government to revisit the existing scenario and upgrade it to the level where these doctors can pursue higher studies in India only...And don’t have to migrate abroad…one simple reason…we need them at home !!